Winners Are Losers!
The world you live in values “winning.” Although contrary statements are often expressed, such as, “What matters is that you gave it your best,” or…
Category: Self-Regulation
I Am For You
In my extensive work as a marriage counselor with couples, I have come to believe the single most significant predictor of marital satisfaction is tolerance.…
The Everlasting Bond
A young man, separated from his wife and child, couldn’t decide whether to get divorced or try to reconcile. He asked a professional what to…
Lessons From The First Person
The first person was Adom (Adam). Originally, Adom (Adam) was created as a single individual with male and female characteristics. When Hashem (G-d) looked at…
The Best Way To Build Peace In The Home
When you and your partner are givers and not takers, you build a healthy relationship. Giving attracts. Oppositely, selfishness repels. After two individuals have lived…
Anger and Love Don’t Mix
Some people think arguments between husbands and wives are a reasonable and necessary part of marriage. This is not true. The goal should be never…