Winners Are Losers!
The world you live in values “winning.” Although contrary statements are often expressed, such as, “What matters is that you gave it your best,” or…
What a Married Woman Needs to Be Happy
Marriage advice for men: If you are a man, it’s essential to understand the specific emotional needs your wife has in your relationship to feel…
I Am For You
In my extensive work as a marriage counselor with couples, I have come to believe the single most significant predictor of marital satisfaction is tolerance.…
Three Essential Ingredients in a Happy Marriage
Marital interactions fall into three broad categories Communication Making your partner feel they are your # 1 Knowledge about self and your partner When these…
The Real Secret of Attraction
The secret of attraction is the unconscious hope for healing and understanding. This is why you are so discriminating in choosing a marital partner. Not…
The #1 Secret of a Great Marriage
You want a great marriage. We all do. How does it happen? Is it just luck, or is it hard work, or is it both?…
The Science of Marriage
Marital researchers can predict with an 80-85% accuracy which couples will have serious relationship problems based on self-reporting information about themselves and their partner. These…
The Science of Active Listening
When you bottle up your feelings, regardless of the reason, it frequently leads to depression. It is necessary to communicate to feel ok. Communication requires…
The Everlasting Bond
A young man, separated from his wife and child, couldn’t decide whether to get divorced or try to reconcile. He asked a professional what to…