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Rabbi Kass graduated from Norwich University, receiving his master’s degree in social work and family therapy. He has a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of California and graduated with honors. He successfully completed his internship at Jewish Family and Child Service and the George Hull Center for Children and Families. He is a former professor of psychology at the Beth Jacob Academy of Higher Learning.

Rabbi Kass’s rabbinical training is from Hadar Hatorah Rabbinical Seminary, where he received a master’s degree in Judaic Studies from Rabbi J.J. Hecht. His practicum was at United Lubavitcher Yeshiva, where he received advanced training in Jewish education.

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At Jewish Marriage Self-Help, our mission is to support Jewish couples in nurturing, repairing, and strengthening their marriages by offering clear, practical guidance rooted in timeless Jewish wisdom alongside modern relationship tools. Through articles, books, videos, and worksheets, we provide resources created especially for those facing challenges in their marriage.

This website serves as an educational hub, designed to share both the essential skills of healthy relationships and the rich traditions of Jewish values. By learning and applying these principles, couples can replace frustration with understanding, rebuild trust, and deepen their connection — creating a loving, lasting partnership that honors both each other and their shared faith.

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